Complete Candle Care & Buying Guide

At Lavender Backyard Garden, we believe candles are more than just fragrance—they’re rituals of calm and connection. Whether you're new to natural candles or a seasoned candle lover, this guide brings together everything you need to know.

From choosing the right wax and scent to burning tips and mindful candle rituals, explore how to enjoy candles that are beautiful, sustainable, and soothing.

Choosing the Right Candle

Find your perfect match—whether you're after relaxation, energy, or a stylish centrepiece. In this guide, we cover:

  • How to choose between soy, beeswax, and blended waxes
  • The difference between essential oil and fragrance oil candles
  • Candle sizes and burn times for different spaces
  • Matching scents to moods and occasions
Read: Ultimate candle buying guide →

Candle Burning Tips & Safety

Burning your candle the right way matters. This practical guide shows you how to:

  • Avoid tunneling and extend burn time
  • Trim your wick for a cleaner flame
  • Safely enjoy candles around kids and pets
  • Reuse your candle jar after the last burn

Fragrance Oils vs. Essential Oils in Candles

Ever felt dizzy from a candle or wondered if natural is really better? Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • Pros and cons of essential oil vs. fragrance oil in candles
  • Why some candles smell stronger (and what it means)
  • Best types for aromatherapy vs. ambiance
Read: Fragrance Oils vs. Essential Oils: Which Is Better for Candles? →

Using Candles for Meditation & Mindfulness

Candles aren’t just pretty—they’re powerful tools for focus, stress relief, and setting your space. This guide explores:

  • Choosing scents to calm the mind
  • Creating a mindful lighting ritual
  • Pairing candles with other relaxation techniques
Read: How to Use Scented Candles for Meditation→
  • Lavender essential oil soy candle in a glass jar, with a background of eucalyptus and soft, beautiful light shadows.

    Lavender Votive Soy Candle

    Made with 100% soy wax and our homegrown lavender essential oil, this mini candle is perfect for calming bedtime rituals.
    Ideal for: Bedrooms, nightstands, gift sets

    Lavender Votive Candle 
  • Focus rosemary lavender scented soy candle held by hand against blooming lavender and white roses at sunset, NZ Lavender Farm, Lavender Backyard Garden.

    Focus Soy Candle – Lavender & Rosemary

    A refreshing blend of lavender and rosemary essential oils to help clear the mind and support mental focus during work or study.
    Ideal for: Home offices, study corners, productivity boosts

    Focus Candle 
  • Opened lid of Musky Lavender Coconut Wax Candle, showcasing the inner texture of the candle, set against a blooming lavender field at Lavender Backyard Garden, NZ.

    Musky Lavender + Patchouli Candle

    Grounding and earthy, this candle blends soothing lavender with rich patchouli for deep relaxation and mindfulness.
    Ideal for: Meditation spaces, journaling, slow evenings

    Musky Lavender Candle 
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