NZ Gift Guide — How to Choose the Right Gift Box

How to choose a gift box they'll love, from the family farm in Waikato that grows the lavender inside it.

This guide was written by the team at Lavender Backyard Garden®, a small-batch lavender farm in Newstead, Waikato, New Zealand, run by Ben and Samantha since 2014.

We grow Lavandula × intermedia 'Super' and Lavandula angustifolia 'Pacific Blue' in our own fields and steam-distil the oil on-site. Our body care products are formulated by Tracey, a certified personal care and cosmetic specialist, and every gift box is packed by hand at the farm.

The advice here comes from packing gift boxes every week and from what our customers choose for the people in their lives, not from a generic gift list.

Peaceful Good Night's Sleepwell Gift Box featuring products such as Lavender Sleep Balm, Lavender Sleepwell Pillow Mist, Dried Lavender Sachet, and a Lavender Field Bookmark, with a lavender field background in New Zealand.

How to Choose a Gift Box in 3 Steps

The quickest way to choose a gift box is to answer three questions in order: who it is for, what the occasion is, and how much you want to spend. Most gift shoppers in New Zealand narrow their search the same way, so a good gift shop lets you browse by person, occasion and price.

1. Who is it for? Think about how they spend a quiet evening. Someone who loves a long bath suits a bath and spa box; someone who is always busy may like a self-care box with things to use at bedtime; a keen gardener or cook may love something for the kitchen or hands.

2. What is the occasion? A thank-you or Secret Santa gift is usually small, a birthday or Christmas gift for mum is often a little larger, and a milestone birthday, anniversary or new home calls for a hamper-style box.

3. What is your budget? Decide a price band first, then choose within it. Our gift sets under $50, gift sets from $50 to $100 and gift sets over $100 make that easy.

Read: Tips for Creating the Perfect Personalised Gift Box →
  • Restful Night Sleep Gift Box packaged in a black gift box with a purple ribbon, featuring a sleep spray scented with lavender essential oil, a lavender drawer sachet, and a lavender field bookmark.

    Restful Night Sleep Gift Box

    A small bedtime gift with our Lavender Sleep Spray, a dried lavender sachet and a Lavender Field Bookmark. The spray is made with lavender oil grown and steam-distilled on our farm in Newstead, Waikato. Ideal for: a thank-you, a friend or Secret Santa.

    Small bedtime gift box NZ 
  • Gift set featuring Lavender Hand Cream, Lavender Silk Lotion, a dried lavender sachet, mini lavender dry flower, and a Lavender Field bookmark, all infused with calming lavender essential oil for a relaxing and aromatic experience.

    Lavender Beauty Skincare Gift Set

    Lavender Hand Cream and Body Lotion with a dried lavender sachet, a mini dried lavender bundle and our bookmark. The hand cream is made with lavender oil we grow and steam-distil on our farm. Ideal for: a birthday, mum or a friend who loves skincare.

    Lavender skincare gift set NZ 
  • Luxury Lavender Pampering Gift Set for Women – includes soy candle, pillow mist, hand cream, silk lotion, herbal tea, lip balm, soap, sleep balm, lavender bookmark, magnet, and dried flower

    Luxury Lavender Pampering Gift Set

    A large pamper box with a soy candle, sleep spray, sleep balm, hand cream, body lotion, lip balm, artisan soap, chamomile tea, a sachet and a fridge magnet, packed by hand on the farm. Ideal for: a woman who has everything or a milestone birthday.

    Luxury pamper gift box for her 
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Gift Box Ideas by Person

The best gift box ideas start with the person, not the product. Here is what tends to work for the people most of us buy for, and where to find it on our site.

  • For her: a pamper or skincare box with hand cream, body lotion and a lavender sachet. See our pamper gift boxes for her.
  • For mum: something she will use every day, like hand care, tea or a candle, in a box that feels like a treat. See our gift sets for mum.
  • For a new mum: small, practical comforts for the evenings, such as a lavender sachet, a sleep balm or a bath soak. See our new mum gift boxes.
  • For a teacher: a small, thoughtful box for the end of the school year, with lavender tea, soap or bath salts. See our teacher gifts NZ.
  • For a coworker or Secret Santa: a small gift that anyone can use. See our small gift boxes and Secret Santa gifts under $20.
  • For a friend: a self-care box for a quiet night in, with lavender sachets, a sleep balm or herbal tea. See our self-care and wellness gift boxes.
  • For him: grooming and hand care, such as shaving soap, aftershave or a massage oil. See our gift boxes for men.
  • For a woman who has everything: choose something she will use up and enjoy, made by a small farm, rather than another keepsake. See our luxury gift boxes.
  • Secret Santa Gift Ideas

    Small lavender gifts for an office or family Secret Santa, from sachets and lip balm to mini candles.

    Secret Santa gift ideas NZ 
  • Thank You Teacher Gift Ideas

    Ideas for thanking a teacher at the end of the school year, at school, kindy or daycare.

    Teacher gift ideas NZ 
  • Good Vibes Lavender Gifts for a New Mum gift box, featuring lavender-scented bubble bath, sleep spray, soy candle, and handmade soap, all wrapped in a beautiful black gift box with a purple ribbon.

    What Is the Special Gift for Mum?

    How to choose a gift for mum that feels personal, for Mother's Day, her birthday or Christmas.

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What to Put in a Gift Box

A good gift box has one theme and three to six items that belong together, plus a small keepsake. Mixing too many themes makes a box feel random; choosing one, such as bath time or bedtime, makes it feel planned.

  • Self-care box: lavender sachets, a sleep balm, herbal tea and an eye pillow for a quiet evening.
  • Pamper box: hand cream, body lotion or body oil, and a body mist.
  • Bath and spa box: bath bombs, Epsom bath salts, bubble bath, body wash and soap.
  • Bedtime box: a pillow spray, a sleep balm, a pillow sachet and a caffeine-free tea.
  • Keepsake box: farm souvenirs such as an enamel pin or fridge magnet, with lavender jam or a sachet.

Every gift box we pack also gets a finishing touch from the farm. Our small, medium and large boxes include a Lavender Field Bookmark illustrated with our own fields and a mini bundle of our own dried lavender tied with twine. That lavender is cut from our own fields in Newstead, where our lavender flowers through the summer, and you can visit the farm from late November to the end of January.

Gift Box Styles Compared: Who They Suit and When to Give Them

Gift Box StyleWho It SuitsTypical ItemsBest OccasionsWhere to Shop
Pamper gift box Her, mum, a sister or a friend who loves skincare Hand cream, body lotion or body oil, body mist, lavender sachet Birthdays, Mother's Day, thank-yous Pamper gift boxes for her
Bath and spa gift set Anyone who loves a long bath or shower Bath bombs, Epsom bath salts, bubble bath, body wash, soap Birthdays, Christmas, a night in Bath and spa gift sets NZ
Self-care and wellness box A friend, a busy mum or a partner who needs a quiet evening Lavender sachets, sleep balm, magnesium cream, herbal tea, eye pillow Just because, thinking of you, get well Self-care gift boxes NZ
Bedtime gift set Someone who enjoys an evening routine Pillow spray, sleep balm, pillow sachet, lavender and chamomile tea Christmas, birthdays, new mum Lavender sleep gift sets
Small thank-you box Teachers, coworkers, volunteers and neighbours Lavender sachet, soap, bath salts, lavender jam, lip balm End of the school year, Secret Santa, thank-yous Small gift boxes NZ
Luxury gift hamper A woman who has everything, mum, a couple or a new home Candles, reed diffuser, body lotion, hand cream, massage oil Milestone birthdays, anniversaries, housewarmings Luxury gift boxes NZ
Keepsake and NZ souvenir box Visitors, friends overseas visiting NZ, lavender lovers Enamel pin or fridge magnet, lavender jam, sachet, bookmark Missing you, farewells, a small treat Lavender keepsake gift sets
Gift box for him Dad, a partner or a brother Shaving soap and brush, aftershave, massage oil, hand care Father's Day, birthdays, Christmas Gift boxes for men

Shopping to a budget? Browse our gift sets under $50, $50 to $100 or over $100.

"Value Christmas Gifts for Colleagues featuring Lavender Essential Oil Bath Bombs, Lavender Sleep Spray, Dried Lavender Sachet, and Mini Dried Lavender Flowers, elegantly arranged in a festive gift box.

Thoughtful Christmas Gifts for a Coworker

Not sure how much to spend on someone you sit beside every day? These small, useful lavender gift ideas work for a desk swap, a team thank-you or Secret Santa.

Read: Thoughtful Christmas Gifts for Your Co-worker →
Close-up of luxury lavender gift set highlighting Lavender Lip Balm, Lavender Silk Lotion, and Lavender Field Bookmark. A beautiful self-care collection designed for relaxation, perfect as a thoughtful gift for women.

Christmas Gifts for the Women in Your Life

From mum and your sister to a close friend, these lavender gift ideas help you find something she will use and enjoy well after Christmas Day.

Read: Top 5 Christmas Gifts for Women →

NZ Gift Guide

Frequently Asked Questions About Choosing a Gift Box

What's a good gift box for a woman who has everything in NZ?

For a woman who has everything, choose a gift she will use up and enjoy rather than another thing to keep. A pamper or luxury box with hand cream, body lotion, a candle and herbal tea works well, especially when it is made by a small New Zealand farm. Our luxury gift boxes are packed by hand at our lavender farm in Newstead, Waikato.

What do you put in a self-care gift box?

A self-care gift box holds a few things for a quiet evening at home, such as lavender sachets, a balm, herbal tea and an eye pillow. Choose three to six items around one theme, then add a small keepsake. Our self-care boxes use products made with lavender grown and steam-distilled on our Waikato farm.

What is a gift box, and how is it different from a gift basket or a gift hamper?

A gift box is a set of small, related products packed together in one presentation box and given as a single present. A gift basket holds the same kind of products in a woven basket, and a gift hamper usually means a larger, fuller box or basket, often with food. In New Zealand the words are often used the same way. We send all our gifts in gift boxes, because they travel well by courier.

What's a good small gift under $50 in NZ?

A small gift under $50 works best with one or two useful items, such as a lavender sachet with soap, bath salts or lavender jam. It suits teachers, coworkers, Secret Santa and a simple thank-you. All our gift sets under $50 are packed by hand on our farm in the Waikato.

What's a thoughtful thank you gift for a teacher or coworker?

A thoughtful thank-you gift is small, useful and easy to enjoy, like lavender tea, a hand cream, soap or bath salts in a gift box. For a teacher, it makes a lovely end-of-year gift at school, kindy or daycare. Add a greeting card so your thank-you is in writing.

What's a good Christmas gift box for mum in NZ?

A good Christmas gift box for mum has things she will use every day, such as hand cream, a candle, body lotion or tea, in a box that feels like a treat. Choose the theme she enjoys most, like bath time, skincare or a quiet cup of tea. Check our Delivery & Shipping page for this year's last order dates for Christmas delivery within New Zealand.

Can I build my own gift box?

Yes. Choose a small, medium or large box, add the lavender products you want from our Build Your Own range, and add a greeting card if you like. A small box holds about two 100ml products plus two small items, a medium box about three 100ml products plus two or three small items, and only the large box fits products of 200ml or more.

Do your gift boxes arrive ready to give?

Yes. Every gift box arrives wrapped in purple tissue paper inside a gift box, finished with our wrap and ribbon, ready to send straight to the recipient: just enter their address as the shipping address. To include a personal message, add a greeting card and write your message in the Gift message or special instructions box in your cart, and we'll handwrite it on the card. Receipts are emailed to you, so no price or invoice goes in the parcel.

How long does delivery take within New Zealand?

We send every order by tracked courier, with no signature needed. We aim to deliver within 3–5 working days in the North Island and 5–7 working days in the South Island and rural areas, and orders placed on a weekend or public holiday are sent the next business day. We only deliver within New Zealand, but you can order from anywhere in the world for an address in New Zealand. Full details are on our Delivery & Shipping page.

Where does the lavender in your gift boxes come from?

Most of the lavender in our gift boxes is grown on our own farm in Newstead, Waikato. Our body care and home fragrance products use Lavandula × intermedia 'Super' that we steam-distil on-site, and our teas and jam use Lavandula angustifolia 'Pacific Blue'. A few items, such as our goat milk soaps, use an English lavender fragrance instead, and each product page says which.